SUPPORT FOR RELATIVES
Relatives often suffer at least as much or even more from the gambling addiction of the affected person. Arguments, money problems or the feeling of being alone are common consequences.
How do you recognize problematic gaming behavior?
The affected person gambles more frequently and for longer periods of time than in the past and bets more money.
The affected person misses appointments and obligations because of gambling; relationships and jobs are at risk.
The affected person borrows money, does not adhere to betting limits and gambles to make up for previous losses.
The affected person often reacts in an uncomprehending and aggressive manner when confronted with the gambling and/or trivializes the problem.
She becomes restless and irritable when she tries to cut down on gambling or when she runs out of money.
The person gambles to escape problems or to relieve negative moods. Thoughts revolve heavily around gambling.
Don't avoid the conversation.
If you are worried, it is a good idea to have the courage to address the issue. If those around you, your family and friends address the issue and express their concern, this can provide very helpful impetus and lead to the person concerned being prepared to think seriously about their gambling behavior. It will probably take several conversations because the person concerned internally refuses to acknowledge the problem. You can probably provide impetus and motivation, but you cannot force anyone to change.
Addiction Switzerland has a helpful guide for loved ones on its website.
What can you do if you have potentially problematic gaming behavior?
Get support if you need it. Be it from a trusted person, your family doctor or an addiction counseling center. Specialist centers for gambling addiction and psychiatric clinics can also help. At your request, the casino can invite the person concerned to a meeting and, if necessary, impose a gaming ban